Fashion
On Overstaying Your Welcome
I do not say this lightly: leave before you’re asked….


In the halcyon days before Covid-19, I was something of a party connoisseur, searching out other night-time aesthetes for quick dinners and unpremeditated kitchen discos. I think most of us are yearning for the glitz and glamour of an over-the-top Christmas shindig—think Studio 54 dusted with icing sugar. I dream, too, of a house party, a proper top shelf one that makes you instantly bead with sweat on entry and hike your skirt up two inches, preferably in a dingy room that might even have a pole for dancing.
Like Jurassic Park with the power out, good parties don’t have many rules. Their un-schooly rebellion is part of their appeal. Apart from “don’t throw up on anything porous” there’s only one rule to adhere to: you simply cannot outstay your welcome, ever. I do not say this lightly: leave before you’re asked, before the light dims on the fun. It doesn’t really matter how much you drink, or whether you started an argument with the host, or threw champagne at the sleeping cat, or whose cousin you let feel you up in the gazebo, you have to leave before things sour. Before the boiling point reduces to a simmer. Before the host glances at their watch. Do not wait for the party to lose its high definition. Leave when the party is gaining the whirling intensity of a salad spinner. In one way, parties are like jokes, you want to exit stage left while everybody’s laughing at a punchline.
To call Donald Trump’s recent actions a gauche interpretation of party etiquette isn’t the whole story, though 77 million votes against you is certainly a unanimous hint to hit the cloakroom queue. What is at play here is very dangerous, of course—rather than a bad sport, our former host-in-chief is the number one threat to the fabric of American democracy—but this is compounded by his appalling manners, his refusal to take defeat on the chin and Uber away from the White House.
The current Republican afterparty is a lesson to all of us to not rudely outstay our welcomes, to know when the party’s over, to tactfully concede to the end of an era, to Make America Gracious Again.
If you care for your hosts, you don’t lurch from room to room, long after the ice has melted. You leave. You’re not the champion of musical chairs if you stay; you’re a tumbleweeding, heel-dragging problem, oblivious to your surroundings. You’re illiterate in room-reading. You’re a 12-part Netflix series that should have been a 90-minute doc, an everlasting Zoom that should have been an email.
Next time you party—one distant day after we’re all vaccinated—don’t get carried away with the novelty of finally being around people. The rules still apply: You still want to leave people wanting more. You’re an amuse bouche on a tasting menu. Make people laugh. Make small talk. Make loose brunch plans with the hottest bystander and escape into the night with a slice of cake wrapped in serviette for the subway. Go home to your real life on the internet, a city that never sleeps. As I said, it doesn’t matter what happened in the gazebo, as long as you’re out before your time’s up.
Fashion
Raekwon Unveils “The Emperor’s New Clothes” With All-Star Lineup
Raekwon, a legendary rapper known for his role in the Wu-Tang Clan, has just announced his long-awaited eighth studio album, titled “The Emperor’s New Clothes,” set to be released through Mass Appeal. Although no singles have been shared yet, the album is already creating a buzz and is highly anticipated this summer. It’s been seven years since Raekwon last released a solo album, and this new project feels more like a grand return than just another release.
He’s teamed up with a mix of familiar faces from the Wu-Tang Clan and some fresh talent in hip-hop. Listeners can look forward to clever lyrics and captivating stories filled with raw emotion. Raekwon has invited his Wu-Tang brothers Ghostface Killah, Method Man, and Inspectah Deck to feature on the album, ensuring a classic blend that fans love. He’s also brought in well-respected artists outside of the Wu-Tang family, like Nas and members of the Griselda collective, Westside Gunn, Benny The Butcher, and Conway The Machine, who are known for their gritty style.
Adding to the variety, singers Stacy Barthe and Marsha Ambrosius will provide soulful vocals to complement Raekwon’s hard-hitting verses. The album’s production features talented names like Swizz Beatz, Nottz, J.U.S.T.I.C.E League, Frank G, and Roadsart, promising a rich, cinematic sound that matches Raekwon’s lyrical skills. Even with such an impressive lineup, there’s still a sense of mystery around the album. There have been no early songs or previews released, just the announcement itself, which builds even more expectation.
But for Raekwon, this is part of his journey. He has always delivered powerful lyrics and relatable street stories without much introduction. The title, The Emperor’s New Clothes, suggests a fresh start and a daring vision that might challenge the current state of rap. With his experienced flow and storytelling still sharp, Raekwon seems prepared to reestablish his place among the top artists in hip-hop.
Fashion
Wendy Williams Makes Stylish Splash At Columbia Supporting Her Designer
In a delightful surprise for fans and fashion enthusiasts, Wendy Williams made a rare appearance at Columbia University on Tuesday, and everyone couldn’t help but notice her. The former talk show host was in high spirits as she showed up to support her longtime friend and fashion designer, Mel Maxi. Wendy looked fantastic in a stylish black-and-white outfit that included a Yankee hat and her trademark flair.
Designed by Maxi himself, her outfit was not just chic but also had a personal touch that highlighted her vibrant personality. In a heartwarming moment recorded on video, Wendy told Maxi, “This is amazing! This was specifically designed for me… this is really hand done.” Wendy came to cheer on Maxi, who was set to give a lecture about fashion design at the prestigious university. Her appearance was a meaningful moment between two creative friends who have supported each other for years. Wendy’s presence emphasized the importance of friendship and collaboration in the creative world.
As she walked by, a nearby fan shouted their love for Wendy, and she instinctively responded with her signature warmth and enthusiasm: “Thank you!” she exclaimed with a big smile. After being away from the spotlight for months, Wendy’s visit was a refreshing change for fans who have missed her lively spirit. There were no fancy events or flashing cameras, just Wendy enjoying the moment, supporting a friend, and reminding us all of the significance of showing up for the people we care about.
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